Part 2: Things I learned in 2 years of grief: Year 2 without Mom and Dad
- orphan_ish
- Jun 24, 2021
- 1 min read

June is a grief overload month and it’s best to have a plan
I’m starting to understand my grief triggers
Prioritizing my daily tasks allows me to use my energy efficiently
Rumination and dwelling is a harmful thought process
I choose daily to shine my light in the darkness of grief
Mom hugs hit different and I miss them
Yoga helps me connect with my body
Surrender, facing, embracing and feeling grief
Reaching out for support is scary but is necessary
Food and I have an interesting relationship. From days without an appetite to eating on the hour, every hour
My insomnia comes and goes
Food can improve my mental health
I named plants after my mom and dad
Living in the present, moment to moment has helped my anxiety
My books make me happy
My therapist and I still have lots of work to do
My relationship with God is a work in progress
Visualizing grief ebbing and flowing like a wave helps me not get lost in it
I’m constantly finding new ways to honor my parents
Breathing fresh air on walks can change my day around
2 years... so short but so long
I miss hearing your voices. Some days I forget what it sounds like
Saying no to protect my peace is improvement on setting boundaries
Grief brain is still real
Secondary losses are just as important as the primary loss
Keep on is my mantra
The world feels differently
I’m afraid of nighttime and the unknown it brings
⬇️ Click this link to read Part 1: Year 2 grief reflections
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